Saturday, July 14, 2012

May (and My 40th Birthday) Summation

I'm not dead :-)

My friend Annie rang me on the weekend and asked if I was ok as I hadn't updated my blog in years. To be honest this is the post I have been dreading, even if I didn't have major internet connectivity issues I would still be dragging my heels to document May.

The lead up to my Birthday Weekend (BW) made May one very emotional and exhausting month.
All the weeks before hand were a mad rush to get the house and yard ready to have people over for my Birthday and then after the BW I was so exhausted and melancholy (not to mention poxy with about 16 cold sores ... sorry for that mental picture) that I threw a pity party for myself that lasted most of June.

All my pictures of the BW are crap and the good ones I took of my siblings out to lunch in Maleny were eaten by my iphone :-( but to follow is the best of a bad lot. 


David outdid himself and worked like a dog to get the paving finished.




This is me on my actual 40th Birthday! Cath dropped into the Uni to have coffee with me. The girls at work birthday bombed my office with balloons and streamers and we had cake in the afternoon. I had a great day apart from strange phone calls where not one but two relatives decided to turn saying Happy Birthday into berating me for perceived slights. Many Happy Returns!

This is the actual day of my party. This is the day I will treasure forever! My family all together, with some extra glorious news thrown in.

My niece Dana is a star... she (along with her parents and my  family) manned the kitchen and fed everyone.  David and I didn't have to worry about the food at all.



After lunch, Annie and Stewie drove hours to see me!!! I love these guys so much and I hated that they couldn't stay longer and that I wont see them now until September.
Looking back I have no idea why I didn't make a bit more of an effort with my hair and outfit on the day... probably because I was trying not to lose my shite at every turn.



Pretty much every pic I have is this bad! At least in this shot you can see the disco ball and the brazier. We managed to have my birthday outside on the coldest night of the year!




Its hard to see but David made the long table and bench seats so we could all sit and eat together and my fam decorated downstairs beautifully. It looked like a twinkly outdoor restaurant. My beautiful Sis Krys did my make up and it was very glam.

Here is me doing what I did most of the night... dorky dancing under the disco ball.

Suzie was also busting some moves :-)
Another  attempt at some family pics.... Cath is making sure she gets in the frame :-)


The next day we all went out to lunch at the tavern Dana is apprentice cheffing at. It was a great lunch for those of us not hungover and asleep on the couch (I'm looking at you David).

Dana picking out knives 


Sunday  also saw Krys and Andrew fly home (thank you again Angie,Krys and Andrew for coming so far for such a short time xxx).

Monday Cath, Ang and I took Joel to the Plaza and had some excellent brunch  and I walked around with the sick feeling in my tummy that it was all finishing.




Me, the sibs and my chins

Angie  flew home Tuesday morning and I went back to work. David and I spent the rest of May NOT working on the house and sleeping a lot.

Stay tuned for June where I hated the world, broke my iphone camera, and helped David rip out the bathroom.

Ex

8 comments:

The Mostess said...

I cannot believe your amazing hubs MADE all of that stuff, and did all of that work on your grounds. It's amazing!

That is SO my kind of party. At the house, family and friends, delicious foods. You nailed it.

You look gorgeous, and amazing, even with the appearance of those mystery chins in that last shot. :)

I can't wait to hear why you hated June.

Elizabeth said...

Thanks Kaari :-) Come to AUS and stay with us and Dave will throw you a big party too. You have done NYC now do OZ!
Ex

Jessica said...

Despite the imperfect photos...that party looked so fun that I'm making my Plane reservations for #45.

brooke said...

You look so skinny and gorgeous..I need those green heels!

Your yard and patio looks so good. It truly does look like an outdoor restaurant. Your parties always look like so much fun.

I am glad you have wonderful family who came and I want to smack whoever was dumb enough to use your Bday call as a chance to chew you out....they should be shot.

Thanks for keeping it real about your shizzy June. I am sorry to hear it was rough. By the way, Bear is looking so grown up all of a sudden. Tell him to stop it!

Elizabeth said...

Jessica, I am rolling out the blow up mattresses for you, Ryan and the kids as we speak :-)
Brooke, I have told Bear to stop growing up and like all information I try to give him at the moment... he ignored me!
Ex

Rachel B. said...

Ha! You are so funny! Do I say that every time? What a great birthday party. You look super cute dancing...love the green shoes! Bring on the June blogs!

Lauren in GA said...

You looked gorgeous and those green shoes are fabulous!

I'm really sorry about the part where you were berated for perceived slights. :(

Em said...

I echo all these comments! You look fab and gorgeous. Your man is a Superman for making all that stuff; your home is looking absolutely fantastic.

I keep thinking that at my next milestone birthday I want to do what you did and have a dance under a disco ball with all my loved ones. It looks like the best birthday ever.